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Penetration Doesn't Always Mean Pleasure
What I had, but was not aware of for over eight years, is a sexual disorder called vaginismus. There are two types of vaginismus: primary and secondary. Primary is when penetration is never achieved, and secondary is when intercourse was once possible, but after a trauma, it is impossible.
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Sex Work Isn't Sex Ed: Why We Need Comprehensive, Fact-Backed, Sexual Education
In 2019, I was answering my phone to listen to my submissive talk about his inability to get hard. He had struggled with impotence for years. Although his wife was patient and understanding, he rang my line. This wasn’t necessarily a chat where I helped him get hard. Instead, I listened, offered advice, and gave him words of encouragement. After an hour, I hung up, and he sent me $150.
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How Long Does a Man's DNA Stay in a Woman?
What's the real deal regarding DNA sticking around in a woman's body long after vaginal sex? I discovered this interesting tidbit in a surprising way: reality TV. But is it true?
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Custom Genitals and Good Vibrations: VR is the Future of Sex
During the first COVID-19 lockdown in 2020, Miyö Van Stenis was shocked at the limitations of male-dominated virtual reality porn and sex. She craved more interaction. She wanted something similar to Bumble or Tinder—tits, ass, and conversation—but through a VR headset. So the Venezuelan-born, Paris-based new media artist, curator, and indie game developer decided to do something about it.
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Sex and the Suburbs
“Swinging is like any other social activity, just dialed up to 11,” says Andrew*, 41. He and his wife first began swinging shortly after they began exploring nonmonogamy in 2018. Before the pandemic, the couple would frequent a western-suburb location every two months.
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